October 4, 2015

Can I have that with rice? Asian-ifying Fall Vegetables in the U.S.


For many people, a multi-coloured butternut squash and cranberry quinoa salad topped with parsley would be a sight to instantly whet their appetites. Unfortunately, I am not one of these people. While I enjoy having a full salad every now and then, at home, I largely think about the vegetables in my fridge in terms of how I can best pair them with my bowl of rice. The problem is that in my on-going attempts to eat in-season, using locally sourced vegetables from the farmer’s market as much as possible, I find myself frequently wondering what to do with certain vegetables that I didn’t grow up eating, such as kohlrabi and Brussels sprouts.

Fortunately for me, there is a search tool called the Internet, which allows me to find what other people have done to Asian-ify their autumn veggies. Today I came across a recipe for a Brussels sprouts dish, which I really liked and would make again.

Brussels sprouts with sesame, miso, and garlic (makes 2 servings)

*Original recipe in Japanese, found on www.cookpad.com/jp

  • 5-6 individual Brussels sprouts
  • 100 ml. water
  • 1 tsp. shirodashi (a type of soup stock)
  • ½ tsp. light soy sauce
  • 1 tbs. sesame seeds
  • ½ tsp. miso
  • ½ tsp. sugar
  • ¼ tsp. grated garlic

1.) Cut the Brussels sprouts vertically into fourths. Heat the water to a boil. Add a pinch of salt, then add the Brussels sprouts. Boil for two minutes over high heat, then strain.

2.) Transfer the Brussels sprouts into a bowl of cold water and let it soak for 5 minutes.

3.) Reserve a third of the sesame seeds. In a mortar and pestle, combine and grind all the rest of the ingredients. Once the mixture is ground into a fine paste, add the remaining sesame seeds and stir.

4.) Take the Brussels sprouts out of the water and pat dry. Combine it with the mixture. Because the leaves of Brussels sprouts tend to overlap one another, rub the paste in between the crevasses gently so as not to destroy the Brussels sprouts’ shape.

Served with miso soup and rice, this is my idea of a satisfying, home-cooked meal in the Fall!


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October 2, 2015

Technology-assisted dating in the 1800s and 2010s

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Recently, I read two books that address mankind’s experience when faced with finding romance through new technologies, albeit one instance in the 1800s and another today: Tom Standage’s The Victorian Internet (2014) and Aziz Ansari’s Modern Romance (2015).

The bulk of Ansari’s book is focused squarely on how dating in today’s digital age is markedly different from the past when one was forced to date in-person and/or through communication formats that required a more physical, personal presence. Mobile or app texting has become such an essential communication tool in dating that we have now developed two selves: a “phone self” and a “real-world self,” whereby our phone selves are defined by the perceptions that others have formed of us based on what texts we sent them.

His main critique of this medium is that “texting facilitates flakiness and rudeness and many other personality traits that would not be expressed in a phone call or an in-person interaction.” And because of this ability to communicate with very little accountability or linkage to our real-world selves, people capitalize on the fact that they can get away with bad behaviour so easily. As such, they become much more uninhibited about the way that they express themselves, which often leads to results that come off as inconsiderate or hurtful. This is especially true when paired with the fact that conciseness as a form of casualness is highly prized in texting and therefore an added pressure that encourages us to exclude explanations and present ourselves in ways that we otherwise might not, verbally or in-person, in order to preserve our self-images.

However, in light of Standage’s The Victorian Internet, that these bad behaviours are exacerbated by a protective layer of impersonality is not an entirely novel happenstance in the history of human interactions through technology. More specifically, the technology he refers to is the electric telegraph, the precursor to today’s Internet, which connected the globe and “unleashed the greatest revolution in communications since the development of the printing press.” Throughout his book, Standage explores the range of wrong-doings that accompanied the advent of the telegraph and cumulatively views them as a demonstration of society’s tendency to blame problems that are facilitated by new technologies on the technologies themselves.

His chapter entitled, “Love over the Wires,” is devoted to examples of romances that were made possible by the telegraph. These romances ranged from inconsequential flirtations between people who had never met, to long-distance dating, to marriages. As Standage writes, “Spies and criminals are invariably among the first to take advantage of new modes of communication. But lovers are never far behind.” Within the first few months of the telegraph being opened to the public, “on-line wedding[s]” took place, and strict regulations between female and male operators were enforced to keep flirtations at bay. “Romances of the Telegraph,” an article published in Western Electrician in 1891, detailed numerous examples of couples who met each other over telegraph lines and sustained their relationships that way. Predictably enough, the varied results of such unions were strikingly similar to the varied results of relationships that happen over text today. Both flaky and considerate people who dated using fast communication tools existed in the Victorian age, just as they do now.

It makes me wonder to what degree the human experience has changed with regard to courtship, irrespective of what new technologies we’ve employed to assist it. Although the world is infinitely more connected now, and there are many more options as a result, the concept of ‘The Game’ has always existed: the vacillation between expressing our true feelings and hiding them in order to uphold the self-images that we’ve created and would like others to see us as. We humans are proud. We do not like being vulnerable or losing, so we play games with each other. The only difference is that now we are able to play as many games as we want, with as many people as we want, whenever we want. This was not the case in the Victorian age. It seems that the dating process is far more exhausting today, the main reason for which can be largely attributed to the burden of immense choice.

On a more positive note, here is some pertinent advice from the Dalai Lama, whose insightful wisdom even on popular culture has impressed me ever since he remarked that Hollywood is “very bad for [his] eyes and a waste of time.” Concerning technology and our livelihoods’ dependence on it, he recommends the following: “I think technology has really increased human ability. But technology cannot produce compassion. We are the controller of the technology. If we become a slave of technology, then [that’s] not good.”

And that’s why he’s the Dalai Lama.

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October 2, 2015

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October 1, 2015

Isn’t it kind of narcissistic to write a blog about yourself?

bonnassieux_modestie_Ly                                         Jean-Marie Bonnassieux. La Modestie (1846). 


Isn’t it kind of narcissistic to write a blog about yourself?
Such was the question I confronted myself with over and over before starting this blog. Like many people, I was conditioned from an early age to believe in an intrinsic bond between modesty, morality, and professionalism. Now, however, with the widely documented success of professional bloggers who earn a living off of ‘just being themselves,’ it appears that the notion of self-promotion, especially with regard to one’s professional image, has changed. Being your own brand is now encouraged. Whereas members of my grandfather’s generation believed that ‘what do you defines who you are,’ now the commonly encouraged belief is that ‘who you are defines what you do.’ And while it’s easy to dismiss this as a result of an ever-growing cult of individuality, I wonder to what extent the public presentation of one’s personal self can be rationalised as morally praiseworthy, acceptable, or questionable.

Man Booker Prize-winning novelist and art critic, John Berger, in his 1972 seminal documentary and companion text of critical essays on Western cultural aesthetics entitled, Ways of Seeing, similarly observed this phenomenon of disseminating private opinions for public consumption, albeit largely in the context of image mass-reproduction rather than the mass-distribution of personal information via the internet. In the final paragraph of his last essay, which concerns issues of glamour and publicity, he writes that, “Publicity is the life of this culture—in so far as without publicity capitalism could not survive…Capitalism survives by forcing the majority, whom it exploits, to define their own interests as narrowly as possible.”

A key characteristic of capitalism has always been the emphasis on individual gain rather than communal progress, and here, Berger presents the idea of using publicity to gain an advantage over the rest of society by editing ourselves into exclusive forms for public consumption. But beyond the issue of capitalism, what actually catches my attention most is how Berger believes that people are now forced to “define their interests as narrowly as possible.”

It’s an interesting thought because it resonates with those presented in a book published forty-three years later by Aliza Licht in May 2015 about using self-promotion to build one’s own brand, and in doing so, creating a niche market for which there is only one product available: ourselves. In Leave Your Mark, she encourages readers to reflect on the key characteristics that make themselves unique in order to present that edited image to the world. The mentality from which she advocates this operates on the assumption that people are “innately judgemental” and view each other in “one-sentence description[s]” anyway, so we might as well play an active role in creating that image for our own benefit. In short, she promotes the reduction of our complex selves into their best, most essential forms in order to be comprehended faster and more easily by the public. Exclusivity and the usage of it for upward mobility—in this regard, doesn’t building one’s own brand seem in line with the selfish mentality that Berger is wary of after all?

Perhaps. And perhaps I am playing into that game, whether I like it or not. But the desire to share our thoughts with others comprises an innate part of our sociality as humans, and it is hard for me to see anything wrong with that. As Kurt Vonnegut said, “Practice any art…fiction, essays, reportage, no matter how well or badly, not to get money or fame, but to experience becoming, to find out what’s inside you, to make your soul grow.” And as the internet is but one tool to share our thoughts with others, I see this endeavour as a way to practice collecting my thoughts and writing—something I do professionally, but here on a more casual platform and with a wider audience given the wider range of content.

And that is all I have to say about the conception of this blog. I hope you enjoy it!

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